The Vivid Raw Butt Fuck from Cal Exotics is a fake pussy designed to imitate anal sex. Does it succeed? Not exactly, though it is much tighter than other jerk off products we’ve tried. However, it might satisfy those that have anal sex fantasies and lack a partner who’s interesting in living it out.
This product is made from TPR, which is latex free and phthalate free material that’s porous and can’t be sterilized. Because of that, it’s best to keep this toy to yourself and avoid sharing. It can be washed with soap and water or toy cleaner, and should be used with a water-based lubricant. The material is dual density, meaning the interior and opening of the masturbator is soft while the exterior is a bit more firm. This difference makes the internal texture more pleasurable without the sleeve feeling floppy and difficult to hold, especially because the material is so soft in general.
The surface isn’t shy when it comes to collecting lint, and has an almost tacky feeling to it. What I noticed first, however, was the scent. It’s not overpowering, but it does have a sweet chemical-like scent that doesn’t go away after being washed and left out. The internal texture features small bumps, ribbed areas, and varying diameters. The plush material makes the texture a little more difficult to pick up, but the tight hole certainly makes up for it.
The business end of the masturbator is supposed to look like a butt, and the opening, an anus. To me, it looks like a simple circle with a crease in the center, and the realism is a little lost. The outside has raised lumps that make the sleeve easier to hold when jacking off or using on your partner, even when your hand’s covered in lube. The opposite end of the sleeve is closed, which is supposed to provide some suction.
The size is compact, but stretches to accommodate most. The hole is small, so if you’re above average in girth you may experience some tearing at the opening. Because the material isn’t very durable, it likely won’t last as long if you have a very thick penis. The sleeve is 6" long, but the bottom will stretch much further if you’re above average in length. If a little suction isn’t a big issue for you, you might even be able to cut a hole in the bottom to better suit your size.
The Vivid Raw Butt Fuck comes in a package that’s just as tasteless as the name. There are two different colors available, and the packing reflects that. The one we received features a woman of color without panties bent over with her butt in the air (the lighter colored sleeve has a package with a white woman in a similar position). There’s no disguising what it contains based on the package, so it’s best to dispose of it and find another storage option. Ours is inside a gallon sized Ziploc bag which works just fine. The package doesn’t contain a lot of information, which is another reason you don’t need to hold onto it.
What we liked
I really should title this section as ‘what he liked’, because our thoughts on this product are miles apart. I’ll break it down further and share both of our experiences.
My experience – I liked the dual density aspect of it and the overall design. It was easy to hold onto when I used it on my boyfriend, which isn’t something I can say about all the sleeves we use together. It wasn’t floppy, and even with my hand covered in lube, it didn’t slip around.
His experience – He loved how tight the sleeve was. It was obvious from the moment I slid it onto his cock. When we were talking about his experience afterward, he couldn’t stop saying how much he enjoyed it. It provided him with sensations he hasn’t experienced from other products. He has an average girth, so sometimes though a masturbator feels good to him; he still wishes it would feel tighter.
The internal design made him feel like every inch of his cock was being pleasured with every thrust. It makes sense when you view the image of the tunnel, because it’s pretty evenly tight throughout. He prefers the head of his penis to get most of the attention, but having something grip his shaft made the experience that much more intense for him.
When I talked with him about the texture, he said he couldn’t pick up on it much, but that was a good thing for him. He’s very particular when it comes to texture, so the fact the plush material didn’t make the texture overwhelming was a plus for him. Naturally, if you enjoy a lot of texture this might not be enough for you.
What we didn’t like
My experience – Considering my boyfriend genuinely enjoyed this product, it’s that much harder to deal with how much I can’t stand it. The material has a scent that not only doesn’t fade from the masturbator, but it also clings to your skin. After using it with my boyfriend, my hand smelled like the toy even after I’d washed them twice with scented soap. Obviously, this small clung to his cock, which was even more disgusting when I attempted to give him a blow job after. We tried using a wipe to clean him up and that didn’t help. I’m pretty sure you shouldn’t have to shower directly after using a sex toy because of how the material smells, but that might be just me.
While that might seem like my biggest complaint, it really isn’t. Though we use toys together, it’s always my job to clean up after, that’s just how we do things. When I went to wash the sleeve, I noticed that the thickness made it impossible to turn it inside out, and once I realized that, I knew there were going to be issues with cleanliness. It washes okay, though it does require a fair amount of fingering to get the soap in all the different areas, but drying? Forget it.
The material is delicate and picks up a lot of lint, so forget about trying to dry it with a cloth or paper towel. I had the sleeve standing up, with the opening facing down, on a rack that would allow air to reach it. Did it dry? Not after the first day. Not the second. And not the third. Every day I checked and would flop the thing around trying to get the water out. The FOURTH day was when I was able to put my finger inside without feeling moisture. That’s so beyond disgusting, I have no words. I did a little smell test once it was finally dry, and there was definitely a funkiness to it. My boyfriend didn’t climax while using the masturbator, so it was simply from lack of ventilation. Eww, eww, eww.
All this, and the product packaging claims that it’s ‘maintenance free‘. Yeah, okay.
After only one use, we noticed a small tear on the top and bottom of the opening. As I said, my boyfriend has an average girth, and though we used it for about 20 minutes the first time, we weren’t aggressive with it. For the price you pay, it doesn’t last long enough for it to be a good investment, in my opinion.
His experience – The bottom of the sleeve isn’t open, which means it should create suction (and the product page even says: ‘Dual-density chamber for ultimate suction‘). My boyfriend was hoping the suction would provide another sensation, but he was disappointed. The suction was so light, he could hardly feel it at all. Considering the issues surrounding how well the toy dries, this was a major letdown.
Pros:
- Dual density
- Super tight
- Easy to use
Cons:
- Material type
- Difficult to clean/dry
- Poor quality
- Expensive
If you have money to toss away and don’t care about what kind of bacteria is growing inside your sex toy, you might find this one to be a good fit. It’s super tight while accommodating a variety of penis sizes. However, due to the issues I ran into, I simply can’t recommend it. The boyfriend would give it five stars if he has his way, but the maintenance issues and quality concerns are too much for me to give it more than two.
Sleeves can be interchanged
Industrial strength motor
Does NOT require batteries
Hands free fake pussy
Sleeves are easy to clean
Waterproof fake pussy
Realistic feel
Great beginner’s toy
Super tight
